Sometimes, you become so comfortable in the company of your loved ones that you start saying and doing things without even realizing that you are actually hurting them.
Even if it’s your mother, father or a friend, you have gotten so used to these little habits of yours that now you don’t see the difference. Therefore, you eventually end up being a mean or heartless person for them.
But my friend, don’t forget one thing that these resentments might be the reason that the most dearly people of your life are drifting away.
In order to avoid that, here are 7 things you can check if you are unaware of hurting the people you love the most.
1. You are always trying to put them down.
If you are someone who talk to people in a manner to put them down, it only shows how unhappy and unfriendly you are.
Not only that, it also gradually infuses hard feelings in their heart. After all, nobody likes to feel humiliated.
2. You were not there when they needed you the most.
As you know, there is always a lot happening in life and sometimes so much that you can’t handle it alone. At that time, you need your loved ones for all the support and love.
And when you hear them saying ‘ I AM BUSY’, it automatically strains your relationship with them for the lifetime.