To have a relationship without problems, you need to be each other’s best friends before lovers. And best friends don’t hide anything from each other, they spill out everything without the fear of being judged.
Sometimes, girls don’t talk about the things that go on inside their head; not because they don’t want to tell the truth, but because they feel like there are a few things that are better left unsaid.
But trust me, if your guy really loves you, he wouldn’t judge you. Therefore, you better not hide anything from him. If not everything, here are 7 things you should never hide from your boyfriend.
1. Your true beauty
It is easy to enhance your looks with the help of applying make-up and styling your hair in a chic up-do, but as the time passes, your boyfriend will begin to see beyond all of the superficial things. Thus, let your guy see the girl who is underneath all that make up,you know you are beautiful just like that!
2. Let him know about your finances
Dating someone you are planning to marry in the near future is a bliss and its said that when you marry someone, you also marry their money. so come clean about your financial condition. Tell him everything about your finances as it not only affects you, but also the relationship.
3. Tell him all about your dreams.
It is very important that you two are on the same page while dreaming about your future together. That includes telling him about your aspirations and what you want from life. If nothing, it will at least give you a clear picture of the direction you two are heading towards.
4. Your food preferences
Don’t be a woman who hides her favourite food items from her lover to trick them into thinking that they are healthy. You both love each other and I bet he would love to know your love for junk food.
5. Your past.
Everybody has a past and there is nothing to be ashamed of. Talking about it to your partner will not be as destructive as hiding it from him will be. Think about the consequences if he learns things from someone other than you. So, before something like that happens, open up to him and you never know, his love for you might as well just deepen.
6. Your vulnerabilities
Talking about your own flaws is not easy, but once you do, it would make the other person comfortable to open up to you. Also, it helps in developing an emotional bond with your partner and it also helps you in getting to know them better.
7. Your views on life
Your partner deserves to know the real you and your views on life because that makes you who you are. Hence, it is important to talk about your morals and beliefs with your partner at some point in the relationship.