Thursday , April 27 2017

Why Is It Okay To Be Lost And Confused At Times

There are times in our lives when we feel like everything is falling apart and nothing is making sense.

Our career or our relationship, everything looks messy and feels like everything has gone for a toss. We demand closure as though our lives were put together as neatly as novels, but the fact of the matter is they’re not.

This is life and it is what it is- sometimes things will go as planned while other times they won’t, relationships will get difficult, people will leave and there will be times when we will question our own sanity.

But does that mean we won’t have a beautiful and content life, which not only looks good but feels good too?

Sometimes, it is okay to not know the destination for you might find something that is more beautiful than the destination. I think you’ve really got to wait and see how things play out as sometimes what you might consider to be a regret or a failure, can turn out to be the catalyst for something extraordinary.

After all, some of life’s wildest journeys begin with a wrong turn.

Life isn’t picture perfect and maybe that’s the reason it is beautiful?

How dull will everything look if everything went as planned? There will be no surprise element in life for we will always know how things will look five years down the line. Won’t life becoming a lot boring? Sometimes it’s good to not know certain things in life and be clueless about them.

You need to give yourself and your life some time to rearrange itself, when things get messed up. Always remember that sometimes our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us to the place where we belong.

So relax and breathe for you will eventually end up where you need to be, with whom you are meant to be with and doing what you should be doing.

Until then, laugh at the chaos, live for the moment and know that everything happens for a reason.

We may not be able to seek all the reasons now but one day everything will make perfect sense. It is then when we will get all our answers to what happened and why did it happen.

On that note, I will ask you guys to embrace the confusion and not let it drown you for you will eventually find the place where you belong.

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